Is Choosing Auspicious Days Really Effective? My Personal Experience with BaZi Analysis
Why Did the Ancients Highly Value Picking Auspicious Days?
As someone who has studied Chinese Astrology for many years, I am often asked, "Is choosing auspicious days effective, or is it just superstition?"
Let me start by sharing a real experience.
In 2019, a friend planned to open a restaurant on a weekend (targeting high foot traffic). After analyzing his BaZi, I found that day conflicted with his Destiny Pattern, and the Five Elements for that date clashed severely with his BaZi. I suggested he delay and choose a day more harmonious with his BaZi.
He was skeptical, but he followed my advice. On the opening day, a weekday, the business surprisingly flourished, and he recouped his costs in the first month. Later, he remarked, "I don't know if it was coincidence, but the feeling of smoothness was unmistakable."
What is the Scientific Logic Behind Choosing Auspicious Days?
Many perceive choosing auspicious days as superstition, but I believe there's a bit of science behind it:
1. The Power of Psychological Suggestion
Choosing a "good day" can make you more positive and proactive, a mindset often leading to better performance, much like how athletes prepare mentally before games.
2. The Influence of Time Rhythms
The ancients observed that different times do affect states and developments, such as:
- The moon's phases influence tides and potentially human emotions
- Seasonal changes impact plant growth and may affect human biorhythms
- Work efficiency and mood show patterns over the typical seven-day week
3. The Wisdom of Statistics
The principles of choosing auspicious days, drawn from thousands of years of observed practice, are not 100% accurate but may reveal statistical regularity.
Tips for Choosing Dates for Different Events
Choosing an Opening Day: Focus on Wealth and Popularity
Best Practices:
- Select a day harmonious with the owner's BaZi
- Favor days governed by the Wealth Star
- Avoid days clashing with the industry's Five Elements
Practical Advice:
- For the food industry: Choose days with strong Fire element (Fire symbolizes vibrancy)
- For finance: Opt for days with strong Metal element (Metal signifies wealth)
- For education: Pick days with strong Wood element (Wood represents growth)
Moving House: Focus on Stability and Safety
Best Practices:
- Select days that don't clash with any family member's BaZi
- Favor days with strong Earth element (Earth signifies stability)
- Avoid ominous days like breaking or void days
My Experience:
Move in the morning, symbolizing "rising" and when energy levels are high for efficiency.
Choosing a Wedding Date: Focus on Harmony and Longevity
Best Practices:
- Choose a day where the couple's BaZi are harmonious
- Avoid days in their birth year or month
- Opt for auspicious days labeled "Success," "Open," or "Full"
Special Reminder:
Many people rely only on general calendars without considering personal BaZi, potentially selecting unsuitable days.
My Rational Perspective on Choosing Auspicious Days
From years of practice and observation, I view choosing auspicious days as follows:
1. It Has Some Effect but Isn't All-Powerful
Choosing such days provides a psychological boost and positive energy. A good start is important, but ongoing effort is crucial.
2. Personal BaZi Matters More Than General Calendars
The same day can affect people differently based on their BaZi, making personalized day selection more meaningful than generic calendars.
3. Don't Over-Rely and Miss Opportunities
I've seen people waiting for the "perfect day," only to miss the best timing. Remember: Opportunity is more critical than auspicious dates.
How to Rationally Choose Dates in Modern Times?
1. Consider Practical Factors
- Factor in weather, transportation, and personnel arrangements
- Don't let date selection severely disrupt normal plans
2. Value Personal Feel
- Choose days you feel comfortable and confident with
- Avoid periods when you're in a bad mood or physically unwell
3. Use Technology for Informed Decisions
Applications like the Beidou Nine Calendar now allow combining personal BaZi for more precise analysis than traditional methods.
My Suggestion: Choosing Auspicious Days is a Bonus, Not a Necessity
Choosing an auspicious day offers a "good luck charm," boosting confidence and positive energy, but can't replace thorough preparation and ongoing effort.
When to Consider Choosing Days:
- Significant life events (weddings, openings, moving, etc.)
- When you have ample time to prepare
- As part of mental readiness
When Not to Worry About Dates:
- In emergencies or fleeting opportunities
- For everyday matters
- When fully prepared, just a step from success
Remember: The best auspicious day is when you are well-prepared and full of confidence!
Do you find choosing auspicious days useful? Feel free to share your experiences and thoughts.