Just the other day, a friend hurriedly came to me with two birth charts, asking, "Teacher, please help me check if these two people are compatible. The family is pushing hard, but I don't feel confident."

This is actually a microcosm of many people's lives. In the face of relationships, we crave certainty but fear unknown risks. Today, using this real case (with privacy protected), I want to break down what so-called "Bazi Marriage Compatibility" is really looking at. It is not a shackle of fatalism, but a relationship manual.